Domestic violence, can have so many areas that aren’t so cut and dried…or easily disseminated.
There were witnesses to the arguments and their volume, is there any veracity to the victim being verbally abusive?
If the killer had such a problem, why DIDN’T he leave then? And not put up with it, until it escalated to a point of no return?
In no way, would I blame the one who ends up in a grave, and clearly I’m not now.
But violence like this, does beg the question, why not just get a divorce?